Today marks my 22-Day Anniversary! I know 22 days doesn't sound like all that much but it is the longest--and I do mean the longest--I have ever gone without having the freedom to pleasure myself via the conventional male method of pleasure. No masturbation. No sex. No nothing! Well, I did have one evening of tease and denial, courtesy of my Queen. Otherwise I have been chaste for 22 days with said chastity enforced for 17 days. I've been let out once for cleaning/inspection which was followed by the tease and denial session. I've enjoyed several days where I was given the opportunity to pleasure my wife and believe it or not I found much pleasure in being denied yet required to service her. So far as domestic service, that has been a little challenging with company. But the last of the visitors will fly out this evening leaving me alone to serve my wife. I have found some opportunity to serve despite the guest--fixing/serving meals, providing massages and foot rubs, just to name a few. All of this service, and particularly my desire to serve, has been heightened I believe through the enforced chastity.
That being said, here a a few rambling thoughts about my short time in the cage. The first few days of chastity was okay. But it really became psychological (I can't think of a better word right now) the day the cage was locked into place. There was just something about seeing my member imprisoned that caused all kinds of intense thoughts and feelings of submission. Along about day 16 or 17 I began to have thoughts of not wanting to do this. In other words, I just wanted to cum (and topping from the bottom). But I was committed to the commitment I made to my wife and serious about becoming her slave so I didn't share my thoughts of wanting to forego enforced chastity and noticed after day 19 or 20 that my thoughts of changing my mind passed. This may be similar to Subservient-Husband's so called
Chastity Cycle and is definitely worth a read.
Anyway, here are a few thoughts on wearing the device. I have the CB3000. The only thing I don't care for is the hinged ring. I have a solid ring but it is not as thick as the hinged and the few times I tried the solid ring it would allow one of my testicles to slip through, oftentimes with a surprising amount of pain. I do not have this problem with the hinged ring. But during nighttime erections the hinged part sometimes awakens me as it does cause some discomfort. But I have chosen to accept this discomfort as part of the price of enforced chastity. I started using the
Ksd-g2 anti pullout attachment and really like the added security it provides. It is sometimes a little challenging to get my member through the Ksd-g2 and into the tube (I am blessed) but a little KY goes a long way in elevating that problem. So far as cleaning is concerned, my wife has permitted me to remove the device every 5 to 8 days for a thorough cleaning. Otherwise, I have a clear (looks like a condiment bottle) plastic "squirt" bottle I picked up from Bed, Bath and Beyond which I fill with warm soapy water in the shower each morning and squirt it into the tube. The water, soap and squeeze-pressure does a pretty good job at day to day cleaning. I sometimes apply some KY into the tube using a Q-tip. This makes erections throughout the day a little more comfortable and allows my penis to move around in the tube without sticking.
Finally, although the CB3000 is a good unit I am thinking of upgrading to the
CB6000 or maybe even the
Birdlocked device as either would eliminate the hinged ring. But I haven't made up my mind yet and am still researching this. Any thoughts or experiences would be appreciated in helping me make up my mind.
