Today marks my 22-Day Anniversary! I know 22 days doesn't sound like all that much but it is the longest--and I do mean the longest--I have ever gone without having the freedom to pleasure myself via the conventional male method of pleasure. No masturbation. No sex. No nothing! Well, I did have one evening of tease and denial, courtesy of my Queen. Otherwise I have been chaste for 22 days with said chastity enforced for 17 days. I've been let out once for cleaning/inspection which was followed by the tease and denial session. I've enjoyed several days where I was given the opportunity to pleasure my wife and believe it or not I found much pleasure in being denied yet required to service her. So far as domestic service, that has been a little challenging with company. But the last of the visitors will fly out this evening leaving me alone to serve my wife. I have found some opportunity to serve despite the guest--fixing/serving meals, providing massages and foot rubs, just to name a few. All of this service, and particularly my desire to serve, has been heightened I believe through the enforced chastity.
That being said, here a a few rambling thoughts about my short time in the cage. The first few days of chastity was okay. But it really became psychological (I can't think of a better word right now) the day the cage was locked into place. There was just something about seeing my member imprisoned that caused all kinds of intense thoughts and feelings of submission. Along about day 16 or 17 I began to have thoughts of not wanting to do this. In other words, I just wanted to cum (and topping from the bottom). But I was committed to the commitment I made to my wife and serious about becoming her slave so I didn't share my thoughts of wanting to forego enforced chastity and noticed after day 19 or 20 that my thoughts of changing my mind passed. This may be similar to Subservient-Husband's so called Chastity Cycle and is definitely worth a read.
Anyway, here are a few thoughts on wearing the device. I have the CB3000. The only thing I don't care for is the hinged ring. I have a solid ring but it is not as thick as the hinged and the few times I tried the solid ring it would allow one of my testicles to slip through, oftentimes with a surprising amount of pain. I do not have this problem with the hinged ring. But during nighttime erections the hinged part sometimes awakens me as it does cause some discomfort. But I have chosen to accept this discomfort as part of the price of enforced chastity. I started using the Ksd-g2 anti pullout attachment and really like the added security it provides. It is sometimes a little challenging to get my member through the Ksd-g2 and into the tube (I am blessed) but a little KY goes a long way in elevating that problem. So far as cleaning is concerned, my wife has permitted me to remove the device every 5 to 8 days for a thorough cleaning. Otherwise, I have a clear (looks like a condiment bottle) plastic "squirt" bottle I picked up from Bed, Bath and Beyond which I fill with warm soapy water in the shower each morning and squirt it into the tube. The water, soap and squeeze-pressure does a pretty good job at day to day cleaning. I sometimes apply some KY into the tube using a Q-tip. This makes erections throughout the day a little more comfortable and allows my penis to move around in the tube without sticking.
Finally, although the CB3000 is a good unit I am thinking of upgrading to the CB6000 or maybe even the Birdlocked device as either would eliminate the hinged ring. But I haven't made up my mind yet and am still researching this. Any thoughts or experiences would be appreciated in helping me make up my mind.
Mr. HS4L,
ReplyDeleteI find house guest to be oblivious to our dynamic. My mother just stayed with us for a week, and if she picked up on anything, didn’t mention it. I have come to believe the couple themselves care much more about the dynamic then outsiders do. Anyway, that has been my experience so far.
As to your emotional state, I do greatly appreciate any feedback on the chastity cycle post you may have. It is my belief I am not unique in this pattern and would be appreciative of any opinions you may have. It has led me to conclude that submissive men should be kept chaste more then three weeks a majority of the time. This equates to six weeks or longer for chastity cycles, as it is past the three week mark that the full effects are able to be enjoyed by the wife.
I have a CB-6000. I wear the “s” model, using the number three ring and the second smallest spacer. I recently tried to decrease to the #2 ring, but after a day, I had to go back to the #3. I have not taken it off since January and there is no need to in my view for cleaning. I am able to clean the ring using a shower poofie during my shower and inside the tube with a q-tip and water from the shower. I too have a condiment bottle, but have found it not needed. If you are considering upgrading, I do recommend the “s” model, as it is discreet while still being comfortable. Unless you have a very large penis, the “s” model is the way to go. Also, as far as lotions go, I find anything petroleum based will form an unpleasant odor over time. I use a hand/body lotion from wal-mart and have never had any problem with odor. I think the guys who do report that problem are using a petroleum based lotion.
Anyway, sorry for the long response.
-SH
P.S.- congrads on the 3-wks+. ;-} good job!
SH,
ReplyDeleteThanks for the response. I just want to cum! LOL. Really, I do but thankfully I have resisted trying to woo my wife into letting me. She did mention last night that maybe I need to be kept chaste until after we are in our new house, unpacked, and everything is settled. Apparently she thinks she'll get more cooperation out of me then. I fear we shall see :-). Thanks for your comments on the "s" model. I will do some further research. I am a little more blessed than other guys size wise and have had some redness that may or may not be from shaving. It could be from bend confined in such a small space. I definitely want to avoid any damage or infection.
HS4L
Mr. HS4L,
ReplyDeleteuntil you cum next, frustration is your friend.
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welcome to the club.
Hope things go well with the move. Glad you two made it to that happy transition.
As for the irritation, it took me several months for the skin that touches the ring and in the tube to become accustom. Daily lotion application is the key to alleviating the discomfort, I had found. Best wishes.
-SH
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on the CB, especially the psychological implications about pleasing Her and wishing you were free. Considering it here, very helpful (maybe I still won't, lol, honestly!)
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